There Are No Shortcuts In Life
Let’s be honest, we’re all looking for shortcuts in life… From diet pills, testosterone boosters, the lottery, get-rich-quick schemes, and other gimmicks … we all want the “magic pill.” But here’s the deal… there are no magic pills when it comes to changing your life. Sure, if you’re looking for a bandaid for your situation, […]
TENDING TO THE COALS OF YOUR LIFE
Do you feel like you’re constantly firefighting in your life? Like it is constantly spinning out of control, and you’re not sure what to do next? I know I did. And I know most of the men that I talk to are doing just that; they’re constantly putting out fires… Doing everything they can to […]
How to Have Tough Conversations
I can remember, like it was yesterday, not wanting to have a difficult conversation with my wife … Wait. That’s because it was yesterday. I’m not kidding. Yes, I coach men on how to be in a relationship, how to effectively communicate, and how to have difficult conversations … but that doesn’t make me exempt […]
What The F%$% is Intimacy?!
Have you heard, or said, something along these lines?… “My wife and I haven’t been intimate for a year.” I hear something along those lines all of the time… What they’re really tyring to say is “My wife and I haven’t had sex in a year.” And that’s a problem. It’s a problem that they […]
Masculine Leadership
Did you read the post on “What the h=ll does she want from you?” If not, check it out. I told you 3 things that women need from you, but I said that was just a start … there’s more. And this one is crucial. She NEEDS this from you, whether she even knows it […]
Are You Sick & Tired of the Same Old Sh*t?
Another day, the same thing. Bicker, argue, fight, bicker, argue, fight, repeat. Conflict killed my marriage and to no surprise. As I have alluded to before, conflict is the #1 cause for separation, divorce, and unhappiness in marriage. Does this sound familiar:“You always say that; I never do that.“No, it’s nothing. I’m FINE.”“Why are you […]
Sex, Sex, Sex
Sex … it’s on your mind. You want more of it. You want to be better at it. You fantasize about it (often with other women). And it’s one of the biggest “issues” and controversies in a marriage. And I know … from personal experience! It can be the haunting ghost of your marriage. If […]
I Was Suffocating In My Marriage.
When I was going through my marital struggles, I felt like I was suffocating in my marriage. The constant stress. The fear. The arguing. The feeling of being “less than enough”. Purposeless. And on and on. I thought that if I could just get through today, tomorrow would be better. And it never did. Deep […]
The Greatest Project You’ll Ever Work On
The greatest project that you’ll ever work on in life is, YOU. Yes, YOU. If you’re seeking to change the people and circumstances around you, you’re wasting your time. You must focus on the evolution of the man that is you. Because here’s the kicker … working on you, also changes your experience with everything […]
You Can’t Win if You’re Running in the Wrong Direction
Stop Running in the Wrong Direction The world’s fastest man is on the starting line of the 100m race … I want you to envision this. He’s ready to break records and win it all. Except… He’s facing the wrong direction. He’s not facing the same way as all of his competitors. And he’s so […]